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Sunday, October 17, 2010

5 Ways To Fail In Life- Guaranteed

In order to succeed in life, one must stop failing.
Here are 5 ways to fail; therefore there are 5 things to AVOID, so you CAN succeed.

1. You don’t know what you want.

Know what you want in life.

Ask yourself, “What do want now?” “What do I have to DO to achieve this?” “What do I do next?”

Every time you ask a ‘what’ question, options will come into your mind. DO the option that raises your energy. Even if you make a mistake stick to this process and eventually you will learn and you will be on track.

2. You want everything and therefore have no idea what you want.

When you chase everything, you get nothing. Learn to FOCUS on a narrow field and become an expert in that field. Spread the word through the internet and your own networks.

3. You waste time- especially reading self help books.

START doing. Success, however you define it, is about achieving something. It is about DOING. Your thinking will be altered by doing.

“Attitude first” is a New Age concept that achieves nothing. DO first and your thinking WILL change; your energies WILL rise.

4. You mix mostly with people who have negative energies.

This is a guarantee of failure. Their negative energies (lack of focus, passion, ability to accept change, etc) WILL lower yours- eventually. Do not listen to these people if you want to succeed.

5. You do things ‘the hard way or no way at all’. You are a serious person who treats themselves more harsh than you treat others.

Give yourself a break. Go easy on yourself and enjoy the process of success.

Bottom Line:

Have fun, be playful, focussed and become an expert in one field. Mix with interesting and interested people; then spread the word about your knowledge.

2 comments:

  1. Oh how Love and feel connected to thee, let me count the ways...

    After a certain point in life, action must be your words. Thoughts, books, knowledge are useless without energy and action behind them.

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  2. ♥♥♥ ⓁⓄⓋⒺ & ⓁⒾⒼⒽⓉ☀☀☀

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